Here are the most popular dating apps and median age that uses them: Let's break it down: 1. With over 7 million monthly users, Tinder was far and away the most popular app. It is the all-time favorite dating app among 20-somethings — in fact, more than 85% of Tinder users are under 34. Top “LGBT” Dating Apps That are Free to Use (#4-8) Fun fact: About 20% of online daters identify as LGBTQ, even though they make up only about 4% of the total population.

Tinder, POF, OkCupid, Match, Black People Meet and HowAboutWe are all owned by The Match Group. (Photo: Tommaso Boddi/Getty Images for Tinder)

If you’re a woman who’s currently using multiple dating apps, it’s easy to feel like all of your friends are swiping through the same batch of less than eligible New York men. Survey Monkey‘s latest intel proves that might be even truer than you think.

Their survey found that Tinder is the most used app, even if it feels like no one is using it anymore, thanks to all the new and specific options. If you’re a gentleman, you might want to join Christian Mingle, Coffee Meets Bagel and eHarmony (or all of the above), because they all have a majority of female users. It’s actually unsurprising, as those three apps are the most “serious.” If you’re on Tinder, it could be to meet someone for the evening, or it could be because you’re looking for marriage. If you’re paying for a website like eHarmony, you’re committed to finding someone to spend far more than a single night with. Also unsurprisingly, Grindr had the most engaged users.

Bumble has the most users ages 18-29, followed by Tinder, Hinge and Happn. Older users can be found on FirstMet, Black People Meet, Zoosk and Match. (Photo: Tabatha Fireman/Getty Images for Bumble)

Better Dating Apps

Zoosk is our top pick for the best free dating app for a lot of reasons. It has over 40 million members in its database. It offers a lot of different communication tools for free and paid members. And it offers dating advice for new users who are unsure of what to do. Available in 190 countries, it's the most popular dating app in the US. If you live in a large city, the potential dating pool is huge – the app claims to produce 26 million matches every day. Because Tinder is location based and 76% of users live in urban areas, your odds of finding a match significantly decrease in smaller, rural cities.

Top Dating Apps That Work

If you’re a straight woman debating which app to download (or more likely, which to delete to make space for more photos on your phone) consider getting rid of the apps with the highest proportion of women. Christian Mingle comes in at 58.6 percent, Coffee Meets Bagel is not far behind with a whopping 57.3 percent of women and eHarmony is in third place with 55.2 percent. Then, there’s OkCupid, Bumble, Match and Tinder. Oddly enough, Grindr has 6.8 percent women–they could potentially be looking for their gay best friend? If you’re a lady who doesn’t feel like downloading Grindr any time soon, you could always find someone in the wild…